Teenagers want to fit in.
They want to be a part of a group. For girls, this sometimes
means wearing the latest fashions they see on movie stars and
in teen magazines. Teenage boys want to fit in, too. If they
are overweight, they be bullied and called names like
"Fatso."
To help your teenager with their weight
problem, you can research the Internet and find weight loss
programs. But not just any weight loss program is appropriate
for your teenage child. Your child is growing and developing.
It is important that the program balance healthy eating with
exercise. It is also important that motivation be a part of the
program. Once the weight starts to come off, your child will
need to be motivated to keep achieving their goal. And, when
the weight is off, your child needs to stay motivated to
maintain their weight.
Losing weight as a teenager has the same
problems that losing weight as an adult entails. When we see
that we have lost five pounds or ten pounds, we think that we
can drift back into our old habits and start again. No one is
perfect. And there will the one day when we feel we just have
to have that milkshake. Drink the milkshake and resume your
eating plan at your next meal or the next day. Yo-yo
dieting, losing five or ten pounds and binging,
is not good for the body or for self-esteem. At some
point, it becomes more difficult to lose the five or ten
pounds and the weight starts to pile on again.
When you and your teen discuss the problem of
their weight, offer to work with them to resolve the problem.
As you research programs on the Internet, you may find some
free ones. Make sure the program is right for your teenager.
However, if you can afford it, you and your teen should consult
with your doctor and/or a nutritionist. Your doctor will
examine your teen and note if there are any medical problems
you should be aware of and what needs to be corrected. Your
doctor will probably refer you to a nutritionist to develop an
eating plan. Check your medical insurance. Your insurance may
cover all or a significant portion of the costs.
The eating plan developed by the nutritionist
should be one the entire family can use or with slight
variations, if needed to account for food allergies or problems
that another family member may have.
If the entire family is involved in helping your
teen to achieve healthy eating habits, your child will
stay motivated and be encouraged. Also, if other members
of the family have a weight problem, losing weight at the
same time will be an experience your teen and the family
can share. This will raise your child's level of
confidence and self-esteem. Adults are motivated
when they have a diet buddy. The same can be true for
a teen. It does not need to be a competition but the
sharing of an experience.
You need to discuss weight loss with your teen.
The process of losing weight is different for each individual.
A weight loss program for someone who needs to lose 20 pounds
is different for someone who needs to lose 50 pounds or more.
If the eating plan the nutritionist develops for you and your
family shows that the teen's caloric intake is different from
other family members. focus on the positive aspects. The entire
family is changing their eating habits so they can all live a
better and healthier life.
Do not forget that exercise has to be included
in a weight loss program. Your teen will stay motivated if the
family is involved in some type of physicalactivity. Taking
evening walks together or going on weekend trips that involve
activities such as hiking can bring the family closer together.
Encourage your child to participate in after school sport
activities. Purchase a membership for the family at a gym or
sports club and arrange the time so the entire family can be
there together.
When you work with your teenager to help them
lose excess weight, they will have a more positive attitude
about what they can achieve. By preparing healthy meals and
snacks, discussing their progress, and actively participating
with them in physical activity, you show your love and support
and help them to stay confident in their ability to achieve
their goal.